Russia lost many of their men in the Stalinist purges of
the Thirties and the Great Patriotic War, what westerners
call World War II.
Consequently, women were in the workplace and frequently
were the sole breadwinners in homes with no men, which
were most homes during this time.
Russian men were scarce. Men were revered because there
were so few of them. They became spoiled. They became
soft. They forgot what it meant to be a man. They became
weak under the dominance of the Soviet State and the
effects of alcohol.
They sacrificed their responsibility as husbands and
fathers for the frivolities of cheap pleasure.
Russian women are the glue that holds the family together.
They were used to taking charge of the family. They ran
the household and took care of the children, while men
amused themselves with drinking and playing cards.
Russian wives are strong and pretty dominating. The
Russian woman who makes it to America is usually the most
educated and intelligent of Russian women. They are smart
and know exactly what they want.
Unlike many western women, they have no interest in
arguing over who is the boss of the house. There is no
theoretical discussion of women’s rights and division of
domestic chores. Russian women just take charge of the
house.
If a man does not put up any show of force, they can
become tyrannical and bossy. American men are sometimes
surprised when their little sex kitten starts to show her
claws.
Men in the west have become soft too. All too frequently
they have sacrificed their responsibilities as husbands
and fathers.
They couldn’t, or wouldn’t, take care of their women
and families, which forced their women to work. They
stopped serving their families and their families fell
apart. They became selfish, only looking out for their own
pleasure.
The Me Generation. What a legacy. Record numbers of
divorce, more children than ever raised in poverty.
Alcoholism and drug addiction.
When they say that men are the head of the family, these
men think it means that they can take their pleasure in
any way they desire.
Being the head of the family means being the ultimate
servant.
It means being the base of the inverted period. Everything
depends on you. You are the rock that the family depends
upon.
Russian women have had to become the rock of the family,
because men were not available or they refused to take up
their responsibilities as husbands and fathers.
Russian women are looking for foreign husbands because
they are searching for the type of men who are willing to
take up their responsibilities.
Many western women have had to become the rock of the
family too, because their men did not shoulder their
responsibilities.
Unlike some American women, Russian women as a group like
and cherish men. In Russia, men were a scarce commodity.
They were something to fight for and hold onto.
Russian women are looking for responsible men. Men who
take care of their families. They are traveling half way
around the world in hopes of finding such a man. They have
not found him at home.
You need to be the kind of man that she left everything
behind for. You need to be a responsible husband and
father. You need to be the rock that the family depends
on.
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