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completely, has built up in his mind, and has created his
own fantasy, of what a future family with a Russian women,
will be.
If the man's dreams are based on a foundation the
marriage agency has constructed and no on a healthy dose
of common sense, then, most likely the relationship is at
great risk of disappointment and inevitable, failure
.The dating services help bring you together, they do
not help you to stay together ! It is not their job to
make your relationship last, so they don't bother to warn
you of the many pitfalls that can become you and destroy
your marriage. What do you expect of your new Russian
bride and what do you really know about her??
I want to give you an example how you can read into the
marriage agency advertising using a critical eye and
common sense.
Try this: Go to any marriage dating agency and
following their procedure to join. Look at Russian women
from 21 to 25 years old.. Pay close attention to what
these women have written in their bio s.. Do you see
anything in common??? Of course you do..it is very obvious
! Ninety percent if not more of these women have written
that they have a bachelor degree. They just finished or
going to finish their educational requirements. Ask
yourself, WHY?
If all the dating agencies are telling you that all
Russian women are very family oriented and in most cases
live to serve their husband and children, why would they
spend 10 years in school and from 4-7 years at the
university, getting a degree ?
Why would these young women spend the biggest part of
their young life studying so hard if they are so family
oriented ? Why not, instead, go take domestic courses such
as cooking and sewing and child rearing?
Do these women, who have spent the better part of their
young lives dedicated to getting a higher education, look
as women who are preparing themselves to be housewives and
mothers and not have a professional career???
Yeap...it is look little bit like the opposite ... if
not more...
Here is another question: Compared to the United
States, how many children are in the average Russian
family?
Is it not unusual to see in the average American family
at least three children. The statistical average is 2.7
children per family. How you get a 7/10th of child I don t
know, but that is the statistic!
In Russia, to see a family with three children would be
quite a shock, absolutely! It is even unusual to see a
Russian family with two children.
When I just came to USA, I was surprised how many
pregnant women I saw on the streets! In Russia it is very
seldom that you will see a pregnant woman in public. For
the last few generations, Russian couple produce only one
child. By the way, it is a very big problem in Russia.
That each couple produces only one child, does not
allow the population to grow but rather, stagnate. To be
honest, it is not only a problem for Russia, but for all
European countries.
Are you wondering why most Russian couples have only
one child if Russian women are so extremely family
oriented as the dating agencies promise you? Why don't
they want to have more children?
The reason is not because of a difficult economical
situation, in fact you can see many countries that have
much more difficult economic situations and these poor
families have 5-10 children. In Russia, even wealthy
families have only one child.
I can give you many more examples of what the dating
agencies tell you and what you can see on your own.
Be smart enough to learn about the culture of your
future wife's country and about the circumstances that she
grew up in, before you marry her. It can prevent you from
making many mistakes and help you to build a happy family
with an Russian woman.
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